Sunday, April 23, 2023

The Family Vacation That Wasn't

Last week was Spring Break for the grandchildren in the San Jose area. A month before that DIL Nicole rented an AirBnB close to Yosemite big enough for the entire family (two grandparents, three children, two spouses, and six grandchildren) to be together for three nights. After checking out, the fun would continue. Son Tony and family, along with Son Donald, would return to their Central Valley home. The rest of us would spend one night at a Great Wolf Lodge, then pick up Donald before returning back to Brian's house for some unscheduled time before Hubby Tony and I flew back. 

There were lots of moving pieces, but the only part I had to plan was getting to the airport at the right time. 

The night before we our flight we got a call from Son Brian. He said a virus had been running through his family, and he woke up that morning with a sore throat and cough. He and Son Tony had talked it over and decided that it would be best to cancel the AirBnB.

So just like that Part One of our vacation was gone. When Tony, Donald, and I arrived in San Jose on Thursday afternoon we checked into a hotel that Nicole had arranged, then walked to a park and watched Grandson Jay's baseball game. Afterwards we stopped for dinner on the walk back to the hotel.

Friday we picked up a car, met Brian and Nicole for lunch, then made the drive over the mountains to Son Tony's house. We stayed there until Monday morning. During our time we got lots of cuddle time with Grands Gee, Evee, and Ian. We helped Tony do some yard work, and went to a farmer's market and a minor league baseball game (the Modesto Nuts, the Single A affiliate of the Seattle Mariners).

On Sunday we learned that the Great Wolf Lodge portion of the trip was also a no-go, so on Tuesday Tony, Donald, and I drove back to Brian's house. Donald left for home on Wednesday, the same day Brian and Nicole went back to work.

Nothing about this family vacation had gone as planned, and to add insult to injury, the nanny for Grands Dee and Ell ended up with a stomach virus and couldn't come. Instead of spending quality time with Grand Jay, he went to a a camp. Grandma and Grandpa did their best to help wrangle two active three year olds.

It would have been nice to have the entire family together in one place, and we're already talking about strategies for next time.  

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19 comments:

  1. Great how you all adjusted to the change in plans, unavoidable circumstances. And there is always next time...

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  2. Next time don't make any plans. Just wing it.

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    1. That would be my solution, but Tony and I don't have a job to arrange commitments around.

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  3. Oh no! And it sounded so wonderful too. As a throat-infected person at the moment I feel for them. Hope the next trip works better.

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  4. How sad that it all didn't turn out as planned, but still it was an adventure. Any travel plans in California are held lightly now. The winter rains have left the state water-logged. Roads washed out and mountain homes are literally exploding due to frozen/thawing gas lines. Coastal roads have slipped away into the ocean. We have some plans for June, the first since July 2019, but, as I said, we hold them lightly because, as you found, there is still a virus out there along with all the other "roadblocks."

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    1. I kept telling everyone that things happened exactly the way they were supposed to.

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  5. Since we live in a tiny house and our guest accommodations are the RV, we are thinking of renting a house in Helen, Ga. for a week with all of our kids and their kids. Lots to do there, and beds for everyne!

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  6. Hope next time goes better for you guys.

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  7. That is a shame! There will be another time, though.

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  8. That's too bad about the Airbnb in Yosemite and Great wolf Lodge parts got cancelled. Both sound like fun!

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    1. I was really looking forward to both of them.

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  9. Well that is a bummer, Kathy. I am sorry things didn't go as planned but hopefully on the next trip everything will come together. We have had to cancel some trips recently because of weather and a virus.

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    1. It sounds like 'something' is going around, and who can predict the weather?

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  10. I hate when something like that happens! My daughters family had lot of plans for the boys spring break and ended up doing nothing because the youngest was sick the whole week!

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  11. We had some bad luck over Thanksgiving, son was sick and had to put off coming home, and we lost our heat. In the end, although not as I'd planned, we got to spend some time together.

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