The Second Half of My Life
Every day for a year, starting on my 49th birthday, I did something I've never done before. Now that I've completed that project, here's more of my adventures.
Wednesday, March 25, 2026
The Power Of Positivity
Monday, March 23, 2026
Under Pressure
The front arrived on time and quickly cooled things off. At bedtime it was in the low 50s, which should have been great sleeping weather, but because my joints hurt I couldn't find a comfortable position. I tossed and turned for more than 90 minutes before finally drifting off. Even after I fell asleep I woke up several times to use the bathroom. It was a far from restful night.
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According to Bernoulli's principle, liquids and gases flow from areas of higher pressure to areas of lower pressure to equalize pressure differences. Barometric pressure exerts force against the body. When the pressure drops, there is a difference between the pressure outside and inside the body and the body tissues expand and press against the bone and joints, causing pain and discomfort.
It made me feel better to know that there was a scientific reason for my nighttime woes, but it doesn't make me feel great to know I get to test out the theory again soon. According to the forecast Thursday is supposed to be in the 90s°F, and Friday the high 50s°F.Five years ago today: Confusion Leads To Custard
Saturday, March 21, 2026
Caffeine Me
The crawl ticket included eight stops. Six of them were giving out coffee or tea samples. Two of them offered coffee-infused treats. The Passport also listed ten businesses that would stamp the document. A completed passport could be turned in for a gift card drawing.
Five years ago: 90 Percent Is Almost ThereWednesday, March 18, 2026
Discovering The World At Three And A Half Miles Per Hour
After two days of way below average temperatures, things are returning to normal. This morning before my class at the Y I decided to take advantage of the nicer weather by walking outside in the area around the gym.
It was 40 degrees Fahrenheit when I left the house, warm enough for my lightweight winter coat. I drove the normal route towards the gym, but instead of parking in the normal lot I turned early and parked several blocks away. After locking my purse in the car I set out.
I moseyed up and down familiar blocks which I know like the back of my hand from the drivers seat. However, on foot I saw many things differently.
- The first was the wide variety of houses large and small. Some probably dated back to the city's founding in the late 1800s. Others were built in the 1920's and 30's. There was an entire block of mid-century modern ranches. The newest houses were modern tear down/rebuilds.
- As you might expect of an area that had been around for a long time there were a lot of mature yard trees. I never realized just how many were sweet gums until I had to work hard not to trip on the thousands of sweet gum balls on the sidewalks.
- I found a Free Little Art Gallery, which I didn't even know was a thing. The display box had a sign which indicated people could "View Art, Take Art, Leave Art". I filed the site for future reference.
- I passed a house that had a fresh eggs for sale box next to their front porch. I didn't have any money with me, but once again filed the information for future reference.
- A house close to the Catholic church had a sign in their yard indicating it was one of the 14 stops on a walking Stations of the Cross (a devotion that commemorates Jesus Christ's last day on Earth). The sign had a QR code for more information. The code led to a page on the church's website, which I bookmarked to come back to.
Shortly before it was time for my class to start I headed back towards the gym so I could use the bathroom before staking out my spot in the studio.
Five years ago: Special Simmered Supper
Monday, March 16, 2026
Click To Relax
Have you had a stressful day? Try this website.
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Clicking the Relax button in the middle of the screen leads to rippling water and soothing music. Subsequent mouse motions provide additional water movement. The whole experience is serene and restful.
In my opinion, the site is best viewed sitting in a comfortable chair with a beverage of your choice next to you. (And a cat or dog to cuddle up with makes it even better.)
Five years ago: At Long Last
Saturday, March 14, 2026
No Pi or Pie For Us Today
Our first stop was Grace Chicken and Fish, in the suburb of Crestwood. We ordered the day's special, called The Crown Candy. The sandwich started with a thick piece of perfectly-fried chicken, topped with a huge mound of Crown Candy-style bacon topped with tomato bourbon chutney and drizzled with herb aioli, all stacked on slices of Texas toast.
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| As it came to the table. (See the chocolate crown in the corner?) |
I tried to pick up the sandwich, but that was impossible until I cut it half.
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| Quite a handful! |
I finished both the sandwich and the chocolate. After we left the restaurant we headed east towards the St. Louis Hills neighborhood of the city for dessert. There were three stops that were within walking distance of each other. The first one was Blueprint Coffee, where we filled our cups with good drip coffee.
The next two were located across a residential street from each other. The first stop was Gooey Louie, where Tony and I each got an individual gooey butter cake and a reusable bag to carry them in. (The dessert was invented in the city in the1930s when a baker accidentally reversed the proportions of butter and flour in a coffee cake recipe.)
The second stop was Ted Drewes for frozen custard. My plan was to put the custard on top of the cake and eat both together, so I passed on one of their signature concrete sundaes (so thick they can be turned upside down without falling out of the container). However, my stomach said two rich items wouldn't be good for it I ate the excellent plain vanilla custard and saved the cake for tomorrow.
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Thursday, March 12, 2026
Can You Identify?
Earlier this week I learned about the term Generation Jones. According to Wikipedia:
"Generation Jones is the generation or social cohort sandwiched between the Baby Boomers and Generation X. The term was coined in 1999 by American cultural commentator Jonathan Pontell, who has argued that the term refers to a distinct generation born from 1954 to 1965."
I fall into the Generation Jones era, so I was very interested to find this great description of American generational differences on multiple internet and social media sites. However, there is never an author attribution. If you know where it came from please let me know and I will credit accordingly.
Formative Years and Identity
Older Boomers (’46–’54)
- Grew up in post-WWII optimism, economic expansion, and the height of the American Dream.
- Shaped by the civil rights movement, counterculture, Woodstock, and early Vietnam protests.
- Felt they could “change the world.”
Gen Jones (’55–’64)
- Came of age amid economic malaise of the 1970s (stagflation, oil crises).
- Culturally overshadowed by older Boomers but too old to be true Gen X.
- More pragmatic and skeptical — saw the ideals of the ’60s fade into disillusionment.
Politics
Older Boomers
- More likely associated with the liberal wave of the ’60s/early ’70s (anti-war, civil rights, environmentalism).
- They were old enough to vote in the first elections after the voting age dropped to 18 (1972).
- Many shifted conservative with age, but their youth was strongly activist.
Gen Jones
- First presidential election for the oldest of them was 1976 (Carter vs Ford).
- Grew up in a politically cynical era: Watergate, Nixon resignation, Iran hostage crisis.
- A major voting bloc in Reagan’s 1980 “Reagan Democrats” wave.
Military and Draft
Older Boomers
- Directly impacted by the Vietnam draft; draft lottery began in 1969.
- Many served or had peers drafted, and this loomed large over college and career choices.
- Mostly missed the draft - by the time they came of age, U.S. troops were leaving Vietnam (1973).
- Never faced the same looming personal threat of conscription.
Economy and Jobs
Older Boomers
- Entered the workforce in the 1960s–early 1970s, when jobs were plentiful and wages kept up with cost of living.
- Benefited from the golden age of pensions, strong unions, affordable college.
Gen Jones
- Entered the job market during high unemployment and stagflation (mid-to-late ’70s, early ’80s).
- Fewer “good jobs” waiting; had to compete with a huge Boomer cohort ahead of them.
- More debt-burdened due to rising college costs and higher interest rates.
Housing and Interest Rates
Older Boomers
- Bought homes when housing was far cheaper relative to income.
- Mortgage rates in the ’60s were often 4–6%.
Gen Jones
- Tried to buy homes in the late ’70s/early ’80s during record-high interest rates (peaked near 18% in 1981).
- Priced out of the same advantages older Boomers had.
Culture
Older Boomers
- Beatles, Stones, Motown, Woodstock.
- Defined by the Summer of Love, protests, “make love not war.”
Gen Jones
- Springsteen, Fleetwood Mac, disco, punk, MTV.
- Less about idealism, more about realism and personal survival.
Summary
Older Boomers
- Idealistic, draft-affected, politically activist in youth, economic beneficiaries of postwar boom.
Gen Jones
- Cynical/pragmatic, missed the draft, came of age in economic hardship, politically pivotal for Reagan-era conservatism, often felt “left behind” compared to older Boomers.
Five years ago: Love That Popcorn!
Wednesday, March 11, 2026
Blue Ribbon Bather
Since then Wednesday after lunch has been designated as Bath Time. I am happy to report that this very chill cat has taken the whole thing in stride.
After he was released from the shower Smokey Joe walked around the house shaking his legs, then found a spot to sit down and clean himself with his tongue. Eventually the excess water was gone, and he was ready for time on Tony's lap.Sunday, March 8, 2026
Stick In The Studs
The first time I put the earrings on I noticed that the post was made out a heavier gauge wire than my other ones. It was also threaded, with tiny ridges for the back to screw onto.
The next idea was to hold a warm compress against my earlobe for a couple of minutes to soften the skin. This one worked like a charm! Now I can wear the earrings as often as I want to.
Five years ago: (Barely) Back In The Saddle AgainThursday, March 5, 2026
Geez, Sez The Gato
At his initial visit last November he was tested for parasites and given a flea treatment.The techs tried to x-ray his suspected leg injury, but he wasn't having it. We had to give him a sedative before taking him back a week later. (They diagnosed the issue as a soft tissue injury, which eventually went away.)
Some time later Smokey Joe developed hairless patches. He visited the vet again, where he was tested for fungus (eventually ruled out, then attributed to mites) and got a long-lasting antibiotic shot. Since then the bare patches have been swabbed with an antibiotic wipe twice a day, and for the past three weeks he's endured a weekly bath.Today Smokey Joe was back at the animal clinic yet again-this time was because Hubby Tony and I had discovered evidence he had worms. (EWWWW!) The cat got an injection, and the humans got instructions on flea control and enhanced litter box maintenance.
Smokey Joe was thrilled to hear that in three weeks he can stay home when we take a stool sample back to the office.
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