This afternoon I was stilling on the bed working on my laptop. The cat sauntered in, looked at his favorite spot at the foot of the mattress, looked at me, and then back at the bed. After a quick cat brain calculation he jumped up and settled in.
Ten minutes later I decided to take a nap myself. As I was stretching out, Pimento woke up enough to make sure I wasn't getting ready to grab him, then went back to sleep.
Five years ago: Crisper Component
cats have a mind of their own and need to accept you on their own terms--sounds like your are good for him though
ReplyDelete"Cats have a mind of their own"-so true!
DeleteSome like Peopling and some don't, my Granddaughter's Male Cat, Eli, Hates everyone but her, he tolerates me coz I'm his Staff. *LOL* He is NOT a Cuddler but allows only her to pick him up. It is said that mean Cats are just fearful ones and that if you squint your Eyes and get down to their level instead of being higher than they are, it's more calming, narrowing of Eyes is like a Cat's Smile.
ReplyDeleteIt's frustrating because we had made a lot of progress with him.
DeleteCats are so persnickety. I’ve had a total of 10 or 11 cats in my lifetime and each one had distinct personalities and idiosyncrasies. That’s why I love cats. You never know what you’re getting and you love them anyway.
ReplyDelete"You never know what you’re getting and you love them anyway."
DeleteYep.
Oh my yes. My grandkid's cat never forgave me for accidentally swatting her. Distrust, disgust, artfully portrayed. You are going to have to work hard to be forgiven.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm ready for the work!
DeleteAww he seems to be warming up to you. -Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteI hope so.
DeleteNaps can reset almost anything.
ReplyDeleteFor both cats AND people.
DeleteCats are opportunists. Pimento has forgiven you really, but just doesn't want to show it.
ReplyDeleteI agree. There have been a couple of times when he will come up to me, but then realizes what he's doing and turn away.
DeleteBest wishes to you ... and your cat.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
Thank you.
DeleteNot forgiven yet!
ReplyDeleteMaybe soon, I hope.
DeleteEven he could not continue on resisting napping on that bed with you there! I hope he continues to defrost around you - but Debby is so right. "You never know what you’re getting and you love them anyway."
ReplyDeleteI enjoy the challenge of changing his mind :-)
Deletemaybe Pimento is still having a few trust issues. I find myself doing this sometimes. he looks very comfortable
ReplyDeleteI agree with your assessment.
DeleteOh Pimento, he's decided you are the enemy and is shunning you.
ReplyDeleteI hope we can get past the adversarial part soon.
DeleteHopefully he'll come around.
ReplyDeleteI hope so, too.
DeleteIt's good you enjoy the challenge of changing his mind, good luck with that.
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What a cutie though. Glad he stayed for the nap.
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