TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation.
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SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation.
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ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time.
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RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.
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FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing.
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INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employed in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions.
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SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly.
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JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries or omitting the benefits that are your duty.
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MODERATION. Avoid extremes; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.
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CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, clothes, or habitation.
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TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.
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CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dullness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation.
HUMILITY. Imitate Jesus and Socrates.
Every day for a year, starting on my 49th birthday, I did something I've never done before. Now that I've completed that project, here's more of my adventures.
Sunday, January 19, 2025
Old Ben Had It Right
In Benjamin Franklin's autobiography, he lists thirteen self-improvement
virtues. Each week he would focus on a different one and try to become a
better person. Today, although some of the wording on his list could be updated (there are certainly additional role models for humility than Jesus and Socrates, and as Debra pointed out Ben was notorious for not being able to keep his private parts in his pants) he was honest about his imperfection. I still think the list is still a great thing to strive towards.
I like these. I am always trying to be good person.
ReplyDeleteIn my experience that's a never-ending task.
DeleteUm, regarding #12, wasn't Benjamin Franklin a notorious horndog?
ReplyDeleteWTH! I had addressed that, but somehow Blogger jumped back to a previous version to publish. Thanks for pointing it out; I will republish.
DeleteI had to look up venery. Use it for health? That's not very specific.
ReplyDeletePolitically correct for the day and age?
DeleteA wise smart man! -Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteOh Ben…
ReplyDeleteI still like him and while I have heard those reports, to me it doesn’t mattter - big deal. I say let the old goat rest in peace. He still was a wise man.
I am working on order. Sigh... And yes, I know he was actually quite a womanizer.
ReplyDeleteThat's the hardest thing for me, too.
DeleteI too had to look up venery and though I agree with Old Ben's other points, I'll have to challenge his prudish thinking on that one. No. 12 in combination with No. 9 perhaps.
ReplyDeleteThings are certainly different today then they were back in Ben's day.
DeleteBF had an interesting list and reminded me of annual resolutions. I wonder how many of these he adhered to in reality.
ReplyDeleteProgress not perfection. I know that he worked on one each week for many years.
DeleteDo as I say, rather than do as I do?
ReplyDeleteA goal is always a good thing.
DeleteQuite a list.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
I don't know if a link is allowed in comments, but I found this hysterical, on Bf's advice to a young man who did not want to marry but did want to have sex, about choosing an older woman and why. https://web.viu.ca/davies/H320/Franklin.advice.mistress.htm#:~:text=And%20as%20in%20the%20dark,make%20her%20for%20Life%20unhappy.
ReplyDeleteWhat a riot!
DeleteYou are so right....this list is a great thing to strive for. I had to really study #12. new word for me there.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if enough readers of this blog googled the word and caused it to have a popularity bump :-)
DeleteThose are all good things to have for oneself.
ReplyDeleteAlways be employed in something useful. I wonder if blog reading counts.
ReplyDeleteIn my world it does!
DeleteHe was a hypocrite.. a wise one but still.. points for trying at least.
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